Ten Things I Like About India
Going through the blog and looking at the comments from one Indian person who happened upon it, I have realised that I've started to write a little negatively about my trip so far, and about India. Which really annoys me because I hate whiney travel writing! Oh, this is different, people are so rude, I can't get my shoe size, the place smells like a toilet. And I have started doing it! And it is especially bad because so far I have really enjoyed my time here and found a lot to like about India. It has been much, much better than I expected and had prepared myself for.
I suppose sometimes I like to point out the strange things and play up on how annoying they are because its easier to describe why you dislike something than to describe why something is good.
So without further ado and in no particular order, I am going to write about ten things I
like about India, and I will try not to resort to cheapness, eg, longnecks are $1 a bottle.
1. I do like the cows. Even though occassionally I tread in their shit. I like the way people feed them, I like the way they lie in the middle of the road and everyone just drives around them. I like that occassionally you have to dive out of the way to avoid mini-stampedes. And they use the manure for fuel, except when dumb westerners step in big steaming piles of it.
2. I like the food. Even though I get the feeling it doesn't like me.
3. I like the way people are happy to give you directions, show you around, etc. The other day when we were trying to get to Gurgaol, the rickshaw driver wouldn't take us as it was too far, but he took us to a bus stop and found someone going to the same place. Then that guy shoved us into the share-cab when it arrived to make sure we got seats, then made sure we paid the right amount, then made sure we knew where we wanted to go and that the driver knew too.
4. I like that Delhi is a place still designed partly for pedestrians. I mean, yes you have to walk on the road most of the time, and cars and bikes beep you constantly, but what I mean is, everything you need is generally within walking distance. Just near our house is a little market that has a few chemists, a half dozen general stores, an electrician, a plumber, a doctor, etc. Its not a city that expects you to have a car to get everywhere.
5. I like the temples and the way religion and modern life go side by side here. I suppose I mean; religion is still taken seriously here, but not in a weird fundamentalist way like in the states. People have little shrines in their houses, or little statues in their cars. Or a sandal hanging from their rickshaw, because feet are unclean and ward off bad spirits, and you won't be in an accident if bad spirits aren't about.
6. I like that when you call a person on the phone here, instead of hearing a 'ring ring' noise while you wait for them to answer, you are more likely to hear the lastest Bollywood pop song. So when they do eventually answer their phone they will hear you singing along; 'Gujarati, gujarati, nana na na nanananaaaaaa'
7. I like having a cleaning lady. I know, I said I wouldn't use cheapness. But sharehouse living is really great when you have someone else doing the dishes...
8. I like that I have learnt to appreciate how brilliant a tap with running water is. I don't even care if you can drink the water. When you haven't had a shower for a week and you turn the tap and water finally comes out instead of just a sputtering noise and nothing, you know what a sweet, sweet thing working water is.
9. I like that not everyone wears jeans and a t-shirt, or a business suit. People still wear what people have worn in India for centuries - Saris, kurtas and skirts, scarfs wrapped round their heads, turbans, etc. India, with its films, music and fashion, has really managed to maintain its own culture to a large extent, rather than just opening up its arms and mimicking the west
10. I like the tea. No, I can't lie...I'm bloody sick of it. Its good occassionally, but I am starting to ask more and more for plain black tea, because I am completely sick of the sweet, milky mixture they give you otherwise. It seems to no longer have any taste for me and I feel it sitting in my stomach for hours after I drink it.
So, nine and a half things I like about India. There are plenty more but those ones came to mind first...
By the way, the photo above was taken by my housemate Kate, who has taken some excellent photos here. They are online
here if you would like to see some more.